About this tool
Each partner answers five questions about what matters in love, how you show and receive it, ideal weekends and handling disagreements. The tool then shows a side-by-side comparison. Matching answers reveal shared ground, and differences show where curiosity will help most.
Tips for getting the most from it
- Answer without peeking at each other’s choices.
- Treat differences as topics for a good conversation, not as problems.
- Repeat every few months to see how your answers change.
Frequently asked questions
Do we have to use the same device?
Yes, Partner A answers first, then Partner B on the same screen. Answers stay in your browser and disappear when you close the page.
What does a low match count mean?
Only that you see some things differently. Many happy couples differ on how they show love. What matters is understanding each other’s style.
Keep reading
Our guide How to Rebuild Trust After It Has Been Broken goes deeper: An honest look at what rebuilding trust requires from both people, what a realistic timeline looks like and when to get professional help.