About this tool
When someone you love is unwell, gentle words help. Choose a tender, romantic, gentle or warm tone for a message that comforts without pressure to respond. It reminds them that they are cared for and that rest is enough.
Tips for getting the most from it
- Offer a specific kind of help such as food or errands.
- Do not ask them to reply.
- Check in again in a few days.
Frequently asked questions
What should I avoid saying to someone who is ill?
Avoid minimising and unsolicited advice. Offer warmth and practical help instead.
Can I send this to a friend?
Yes, the tender and warm options suit friends and family as well as partners.
This tool is provided for entertainment and personal reflection only and is not professional advice. See our disclaimer.
Keep reading
Our guide How to Support a Partner Who Is Unwell goes deeper: Practical and emotional ways to care for a sick partner, what to say and avoid, and how to protect your own wellbeing as a caregiver.